The mirror reflects ourselves, whatever is shown in the mirror reflects exactly without any changes. Likewise, people reflect on what we are showing to them…
Even on our brightest day if someone yells at you there goes your day…
Even with your beautiful smile if someone doesn’t smile back there goes your day…
Despite your effort if you are not appreciated there goes your day…
Our mind is like a mirror we reflect only what we see, hear and think…
But
It can also be vice versa…
Like in your low mood seeing a baby smile will brighten you up…
A random stranger smiling brightly at you makes your day…
An unexpected compliment from an unexpected person brightens up you…
Likewise, it’s a reflection we do live on other’s approval only.
Have you ever had a dream about a person who never spoke with you before? I have this one particular person in my new workplace who resembles someone from my past who is no more now, and that person almost reminds me of my loved one frequently. Whenever I see this person I lower my eyes and pretend to ignore his presence around me and avoid being in the same place because it brings back my old memories both good and hard ones like reliving the moment I lost my loved one.
I never spoke with this person in real life at any time but he happened to appear in my dream and speak with me casually as if we had known each other for a long time. I am confused now and thinking about it not getting me anywhere.
I don’t know whether it is a good thing or bad I feel confused. Any advise…
Love is more powerful than anything in the world use it wisely… Not only girls are sensitive boys are also sensitive and emotional don’t hurt them… They are not ATMs don’t use them only for your desires… Trust them to care for them and love them unconditionally they deserve the same love and care they give you… Treat them equally don’t underestimate your loved ones because they are giving up so much for you it is not because they are inferior to you it is because they love to sacrifice anything for you… If he is ready to fight the world to be with you stand with him don’t be scared… The least you can do for them is be there for him when he is low, understand him, appreciate him be supportive that’s all he expects from you…
If you find a boy who sacrifices anything despite bringing a smile to your face don’t dare to miss him in your life…
We all live in the same world where some people still think domestic violence and beating up women is nothing but a part of life just like brushing and bathing… They are trying to justify the horrible things they have done to their partner and children…
Why? Because they are weak? Do you think they can’t have the upper hand in life? I don’t get how they think or what they think listening to the stories of how that weak and sad soul went through all those beatings yelling and abusive words yet she put up with you after all these torchers but you won’t feel sorry for her still…
You feel dominant because you are a male and muscular right? But the fact is you are a coward who hides behind anger and acting out on another weak person who is looking up for you and trusting you that you would protect her. In reality, you are a coward, not a real man…
Ladies, please don’t be silent and please don’t be okay with this, start fighting move out you don’t deserve this you can do better be strong don’t be afraid… Don’t give a s**t about what others think or talk nobody went through the pain and suffering… Don’t blame yourself for other’s mistakes and inability… Life is short live it happy and wise….
It always feel like my heart is exploding with these horrible thoughts which hurt me from inside out but couldn’t let out even a drop of tear where I will be seen as weak in the eyes of others…
Smile a powerful response in all means but I am neither strong nor weak to show my weakness or strength letting out my single drop of tear with a fade smile…
He was making his point blaming everything on me, I snapped at him to stop I don’t even know what to say any more I felt like throwing my phone away or punch at something I lost it completely, With a pause he said I am done arguing can you stop this please can you be normal with me for once… I don’t know what else to say I said okay…
I took a deep breath and said I know I argue with you a lot and I raise my voice but you did not realize how much you hurt my feeling and broke me inside out and act as nothing happened and to have some romantic conversation after five days without any contact and blaming me I am the reason for everything…
Yes, I am the reason for everything I am sorry for trying to spend time with you trying to be with you making you the most important person in my life and expecting much from you…
He kept quiet I know he’s still online I can hear his breath he did not say a word I continued softly I am done with this relationship, I am not blaming you for anything it is your wish to make me feel important or spending time for me, It is your wish and your right It is my mistake that I expected much from you…
I am broken inside I can’t be normal with you anymore I feel numb I felt like I am invisible to the person who means a lot to me it is not your fault it is completely my fault I agree and I am sorry for that I will not argue with you anymore and make you tired…
It ended finally all the feelings I held for him and it ended in an argument…
I am not talking about feminism here but the truth which hurts most of my life… I have one brother out of 4 sisters, yeah I know he gets all the special treats and fun in his life… But what makes no sense is why boys are always getting treated special than the girl child even though she is the only child to the family not only in my country most of the country has the same policy they celebrate the boy child from the day he born to the day he goes to the grave but the girl where she stands in the world? To do chores be a housewife to deliver babies if the baby is a girl then she comes under the same circle…
Yes I know men work hard to keep their family happy and fed everything but even women are working double shift both work and house how we can justify this all because the parents gave the difference from the day they born right… If it is a boy he gets all the freedom but girls?
I respect men, My father is a great man but this community this society need to change… Treat us better equally as human so there will be no need to be cursed from the day we born to the grave…
It all starts in the morning… As soon as woke up my mom bought me bed tea-sipping slowly I asked ma shall I do all the household chores for you today… You just sit back and relax I will bring food to you all you have to do is list out… I taught it is going to be easy I will do everything in an hour or two and start watching series on Netflix…
I started after eating breakfast (mom cooked already) First thing I rearranged everything and sweep and mop the whole house… Then prepare lunch for everyone and serve them then wash dishes I thought okay work done for now will rest became tired doing this itself… There goes mom reminds me of doing laundry then fold the clothes and put it on each one’s drawer where it belongs okay laundry done and dried clothes meanwhile fold clothes as well finally now I can rest, Seeing the mobile I was shocked time is already around 5 pm papa was asking for tea my little nephew asking milk and biscuits they all wanted some snacks as like I do every day with my mom I was exhausted already mom stepped in and said you are tired go rest I will take care of the rest… But no I said I can do it you just relax I prepared snacks tea served everyone at the house and I had some tea break finally by the I realized time is around 8 pm dinner time make dinner serve to everyone clean the kitchen was the dishes time is around 11 pm now I am not able to move a muscle I did not get any time for taking bath also I was tired exhausted too… Finally, before going to bed I asked my mom why don’t we hire a maid to house how come you do everything daily all this works you will be very tired barely I touched my mobile throughout the day I didn’t any time to myself as well I just feel like need to sleep right now… In spite of doing everything, they criticize food taste and everything how come you are being okay with all these…
Mom smiled and answered we don’t need a maid its just routine work I do every day and I am used to it I don’t find any difficulty doing it and truly I am happy doing it for my family and I am really glad you did all the works for me and gave me perfect rest and I am proud of you… And you must be very tired go sleep…
I never realized there are so many works at home we never aware of we all think being and staying at home is the easiest job of all and they are just taking good rest ut it is not true they suffer they are exhausted but even though they put on a smile and make us feel special…
Only superhumans are capable of doing that, they live among us and we are too busy to notice that… In my previous blog, I have mentioned how our moms are sacrificing everything for our life and what we can do for them and how I am going to try something to help my mom… I will try doing at least half of her works every day…
As of now, the world is in chaos everything is shattered because of this quarantine and lockdown… As of now in India, there is a second wave of corona so we all locked up… Not connected with friends and loved ones it is a kind of crucial time of our life… Being alone and feeling lonely I gave much thought about others lifestyles and how they are keeping it up what they do so and so… Then the reality strikes my mind…
I love my mom… everybody does right? We all worship our mothers we are all grateful to them like we love them the most and they love us the best… Just think we struggle so much to be alone or to be lonely stuck at home not able to have a social life and have fun, do you ever thought about your mom’s life in this quarantine or apart from quarantine..? A lonely soul… Their life is almost the same they never really had any social circle or friends or any fun thing to do all they do is just take care of their home take care of their children and family do all the chores feed them so and so… But in reality they don’t speak much or share much about how they feel what they want or anything they just go with the flow they almost forgot who they are what they like or don’t like anything… they concentrate only on other’s like how to make them happy how to fulfil their desires but in the end, they end up all alone and left with nothing… It is sad but bitter truth we all busy with our own life and passion we forgot the soul who gave up much more than her own life for our life… We are not spending much time with them chat with them or feel them… It is completely wrong, right? yes, I have decided to do something about it and be the change I want and I will try to work out… Hoping for the best… Maybe you guys try spending time with your mom and make her day… Why wishing her only on mother’s day it’s our responsibility to make her feel special every day…
Life Messes or People Messes 