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Living it Up: Solo Weekend Bliss…

There are plenty of enjoyable activities for singles to do over the weekend. Here are some ideas:

  1. Explore Nature: Take a hike, go for a bike ride, or simply enjoy a leisurely stroll in a nearby park or nature reserve. Being in nature can be refreshing and rejuvenating.

2. Attend a Local Event: Check out local events happening in your area, such as art exhibits, concerts, farmers markets, or community festivals. It’s a great way to meet new people and immerse yourself in your community.

3. Try a New Hobby: Use the weekend to explore a new hobby or activity that interests you, whether it’s painting, cooking, photography, or dancing. You can take a class or simply experiment on your own.

4. Visit Museums or Galleries: Spend some time exploring museums, art galleries, or historical sites in your area. It can be both educational and inspiring.

5. Host a Game Night: Invite friends over for a fun game night filled with board games, card games, or video games. It’s a great way to socialize and have some laughs.

6. Volunteer: Dedicate some time to giving back to your community by volunteering at a local charity or organization. Not only will you be helping others, but you’ll also feel a sense of fulfillment and purpose.

7. Take Yourself on a Date: Treat yourself to a solo date at a nice restaurant, café, or movie theater. Enjoy your own company and indulge in something you love.

8. Exercise: Get active by going for a run, practicing yoga, or hitting the gym. Exercise is not only good for your physical health but also for your mental well-being.

9. Explore Your City: Take a day to be a tourist in your own city. Visit landmarks, try out new restaurants, or simply wander around and discover hidden gems.

10. Relax and Unwind: Sometimes, the best weekend plans involve simply relaxing at home. Treat yourself to a spa day, binge-watch your favorite TV shows, or curl up with a good book.

These tips are applicable not just to girls but also to boys. Remember, the most important thing is to do what makes you happy and fulfilled. Whether you prefer to spend your weekend alone or with friends, there are plenty of options to make the most of your time.

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Hope… Life… Hope…

“When faced with challenges, choose to build a home with the stones life provides instead of dwelling on their presence. It’s wiser to seek shelter under a roof than to endure homelessness. In times of difficulty, cling to hope; it will bring a glimmer of positivity amid the initial suffering. Persevere and hold on, for the mysteries of life may unfold unexpected blessings in the end.”

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Sky Pictures on my Gallery…

A few days before I saw the Instagram story of sky photos on your mobile, thought I could make a blog about the photos and the story behind it.

MARINA BAY – SINGAPORE

A solo trip first time ever stayed in Singapore for around 15 days, it was a blast exploring completely and had a lot of fun…

UNIVERSAL STUDIO – SENTOSA ISLAND

After having a fun day at Universal Studio, had a long walk on the Sentosa Island beach…

PUDUCHERRY – BEACH

An unplanned night drive leads to Puducherry Beach at the perfect time of sunrise, most stunning view.

UDHAGAMUNDALAM – INDIA

Stunning view of rich mountains and tea estates, with a cool breeze and drizzling drops. My home town … always favourite.

MIDDLE OF NOWHERE – INDIA

Beautiful sky views out in the middle of a road trip.

OOTY – TAMILNADU – INDIA

There are many more I will post on another blog…

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Sympathy or Empathy…?

Today I have learned about the difference between sympathy and empathy with more technical explanations from how neurons work in our brain to the emotional aspect of humans to other test animals. We all know the difference between both.

After learning it, I kind of figured me an empathic person in more ways but one question kept on popping into my head from morning, will I be able to be this way all my life or will I lose one of the best qualities which makes me kind will vanish as I move on with my life.

It is really fascinating how our brain work all these IQ and EQ differences, feelings, emotions and all the kind of weird things our brain do… But I figured as much as we show kindness or compassion throughout our life at one point it is going to hit the wall, we are going to face someone or something which will shake all our human nature and question ourself some day.

I wish that day would never come and after all, being empathic and feeling about others is not a bad thing or makes us weak actually it makes us strong. After all the only thing which is not gonna cost us anything is to show kindness to others right. Let’s hold on to our kindness and make the world a better place.

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That Feel…

You could have said YES

You could have said NO

You could have said SOMETHING

You could have LOVED

You could have SMILED

You could have STAYED

You could have stayed SILENT

You could have done BETTER

You could have STOPPED

You could have MOVED ON

You could have CRIED

You could have SCREAMED

You could have WALKED AWAY

We all have that feeling, which never happened at the right time but regretted later …

Have a great day ahead…

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Boys To Girls…

Dear Girls…

Love is more powerful than anything in the world use it wisely…
Not only girls are sensitive boys are also sensitive and emotional don’t hurt them… They are not ATMs don’t use them only for your desires…
Trust them to care for them and love them unconditionally they deserve the same love and care they give you… Treat them equally don’t underestimate your loved ones because they are giving up so much for you it is not because they are inferior to you it is because they love to sacrifice anything for you… If he is ready to fight the world to be with you stand with him don’t be scared… The least you can do for them is be there for him when he is low, understand him, appreciate him be supportive that’s all he expects from you…

If you find a boy who sacrifices anything despite bringing a smile to your face don’t dare to miss him in your life…

Have a great day…

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Super Human Among Us…

It all starts in the morning… As soon as woke up my mom bought me bed tea-sipping slowly I asked ma shall I do all the household chores for you today… You just sit back and relax I will bring food to you all you have to do is list out… I taught it is going to be easy I will do everything in an hour or two and start watching series on Netflix…

I started after eating breakfast (mom cooked already) First thing I rearranged everything and sweep and mop the whole house… Then prepare lunch for everyone and serve them then wash dishes I thought okay work done for now will rest became tired doing this itself… There goes mom reminds me of doing laundry then fold the clothes and put it on each one’s drawer where it belongs okay laundry done and dried clothes meanwhile fold clothes as well finally now I can rest, Seeing the mobile I was shocked time is already around 5 pm papa was asking for tea my little nephew asking milk and biscuits they all wanted some snacks as like I do every day with my mom I was exhausted already mom stepped in and said you are tired go rest I will take care of the rest… But no I said I can do it you just relax I prepared snacks tea served everyone at the house and I had some tea break finally by the I realized time is around 8 pm dinner time make dinner serve to everyone clean the kitchen was the dishes time is around 11 pm now I am not able to move a muscle I did not get any time for taking bath also I was tired exhausted too… Finally, before going to bed I asked my mom why don’t we hire a maid to house how come you do everything daily all this works you will be very tired barely I touched my mobile throughout the day I didn’t any time to myself as well I just feel like need to sleep right now… In spite of doing everything, they criticize food taste and everything how come you are being okay with all these…

Mom smiled and answered we don’t need a maid its just routine work I do every day and I am used to it I don’t find any difficulty doing it and truly I am happy doing it for my family and I am really glad you did all the works for me and gave me perfect rest and I am proud of you… And you must be very tired go sleep…

I never realized there are so many works at home we never aware of we all think being and staying at home is the easiest job of all and they are just taking good rest ut it is not true they suffer they are exhausted but even though they put on a smile and make us feel special…

Only superhumans are capable of doing that, they live among us and we are too busy to notice that… In my previous blog, I have mentioned how our moms are sacrificing everything for our life and what we can do for them and how I am going to try something to help my mom… I will try doing at least half of her works every day…

Love you ma and thanks for everything…

Have a great day…

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A Lonely Soul…

As of now, the world is in chaos everything is shattered because of this quarantine and lockdown… As of now in India, there is a second wave of corona so we all locked up… Not connected with friends and loved ones it is a kind of crucial time of our life… Being alone and feeling lonely I gave much thought about others lifestyles and how they are keeping it up what they do so and so… Then the reality strikes my mind…

I love my mom… everybody does right? We all worship our mothers we are all grateful to them like we love them the most and they love us the best… Just think we struggle so much to be alone or to be lonely stuck at home not able to have a social life and have fun, do you ever thought about your mom’s life in this quarantine or apart from quarantine..? A lonely soul… Their life is almost the same they never really had any social circle or friends or any fun thing to do all they do is just take care of their home take care of their children and family do all the chores feed them so and so… But in reality they don’t speak much or share much about how they feel what they want or anything they just go with the flow they almost forgot who they are what they like or don’t like anything… they concentrate only on other’s like how to make them happy how to fulfil their desires but in the end, they end up all alone and left with nothing… It is sad but bitter truth we all busy with our own life and passion we forgot the soul who gave up much more than her own life for our life… We are not spending much time with them chat with them or feel them… It is completely wrong, right? yes, I have decided to do something about it and be the change I want and I will try to work out… Hoping for the best… Maybe you guys try spending time with your mom and make her day… Why wishing her only on mother’s day it’s our responsibility to make her feel special every day…

Meet you at my next post…

Have a great day…

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What is Beauty?

Beauty is something beyond our visuals… We already saw many elaborations and explanations about beauty in many movies and from many influencers…

Today let me say something about beauty from my view…

Beauty:

Smile of a born baby hoping for the best future…

The first drop of rain that touches the mud makes an amazing smell I love the beauty of it…

The first bloom of the plant is just wow…

A small Quarrel between loved ones and a small hug solves the problem it’s the beauty of life…

Going on a long night ride on no moon day and turning off your headlights there goes the beauty of the night…

Advice from your dada repeating the same again and again its the beauty of your existence…(lol)

A loveable food from your mom when your super hungry there goes the beauty of motherhood… etc… etc…

The happy life exists in you, not in others… It happens and within you so please don’t search in others or anywhere…

Have a great day ahead…

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Crumbs of Happiness…

I like to call it crumbs of happiness because happiness has never been a part of my life, it was like flickering light always, funny but true…

Whenever I happened to be happy about something before enjoying the feeling and absorbing it deep inside I will be struck with something more powerful may be a disappointment or something more than that… But I am used to it, I stopped absorbing and keep my eyes open for the next strike…

You may feel I am crazy how come some one’s life will be this miserable..? Right, I taught so but can’t even explain here… But however what I feel or what strikes me is not important in life right, I am blessed with those crumbs which give the meaning of my life…

When someone asks how you feeling means a lot… When I was unwrapping that small gift box all my feelings and face was glowing up with surprise, those moments are important even though they are for minutes or seconds but it makes our life complete…

Thinking back after 5 years we all remember only the bits of happiest moments in life, not the sad or striking moments it all become funny or we will think great about our-self for being strong and the person who we are right now right…

So friends, don’t give up… Whether it is crumbs or even dots doesn’t matter all that matter was something or someone helping you to stay alive and move on with your life-giving hope to you about everything and make you realize how strong you are…

Even though you are not blessed with showers of happiness some people live out there starving… Be happy cherish the moment keep smiling…

Have a Great Day Ahead…