Category: Girl Alone

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Living it Up: Solo Weekend Bliss…

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There are plenty of enjoyable activities for singles to do over the weekend. Here are some ideas:

  1. Explore Nature: Take a hike, go for a bike ride, or simply enjoy a leisurely stroll in a nearby park or nature reserve. Being in nature can be refreshing and rejuvenating.

2. Attend a Local Event: Check out local events happening in your area, such as art exhibits, concerts, farmers markets, or community festivals. It’s a great way to meet new people and immerse yourself in your community.

3. Try a New Hobby: Use the weekend to explore a new hobby or activity that interests you, whether it’s painting, cooking, photography, or dancing. You can take a class or simply experiment on your own.

4. Visit Museums or Galleries: Spend some time exploring museums, art galleries, or historical sites in your area. It can be both educational and inspiring.

5. Host a Game Night: Invite friends over for a fun game night filled with board games, card games, or video games. It’s a great way to socialize and have some laughs.

6. Volunteer: Dedicate some time to giving back to your community by volunteering at a local charity or organization. Not only will you be helping others, but you’ll also feel a sense of fulfillment and purpose.

7. Take Yourself on a Date: Treat yourself to a solo date at a nice restaurant, café, or movie theater. Enjoy your own company and indulge in something you love.

8. Exercise: Get active by going for a run, practicing yoga, or hitting the gym. Exercise is not only good for your physical health but also for your mental well-being.

9. Explore Your City: Take a day to be a tourist in your own city. Visit landmarks, try out new restaurants, or simply wander around and discover hidden gems.

10. Relax and Unwind: Sometimes, the best weekend plans involve simply relaxing at home. Treat yourself to a spa day, binge-watch your favorite TV shows, or curl up with a good book.

These tips are applicable not just to girls but also to boys. Remember, the most important thing is to do what makes you happy and fulfilled. Whether you prefer to spend your weekend alone or with friends, there are plenty of options to make the most of your time.

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Different worlds…?

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It has been 2 months since I moved from home and started working, even though I had stayed away from home longer than this. But this is the first time I feel homesick, I lost my glow I feel like I missed my home badly.


I have travelled to many places, and I always blend in smoothly without any hustle. This time it is hard. Adaptation is nowhere near me.


I miss my family
I miss food
I miss people
I miss going around
I miss laughing
I miss smiling


I feel way more lonely now, though I feel like going out and exploring the place I couldn’t I am no longer active nowadays, always feeling sleepy or weak. The awkward truth I haven’t even made one friend in these two months.


I think this may be a different world than mine I am having some adjustment issues, but I am trying to stay positive and blend in as much as I can. But I couldn’t shake off the feeling that I was not being myself.

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That Feel…

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You could have said YES

You could have said NO

You could have said SOMETHING

You could have LOVED

You could have SMILED

You could have STAYED

You could have stayed SILENT

You could have done BETTER

You could have STOPPED

You could have MOVED ON

You could have CRIED

You could have SCREAMED

You could have WALKED AWAY

We all have that feeling, which never happened at the right time but regretted later …

Have a great day ahead…

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Say No To Domestic violence…

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We all live in the same world where some people still think domestic violence and beating up women is nothing but a part of life just like brushing and bathing… They are trying to justify the horrible things they have done to their partner and children…

Why? Because they are weak? Do you think they can’t have the upper hand in life?
I don’t get how they think or what they think listening to the stories of how that weak and sad soul went through all those beatings yelling and abusive words yet she put up with you after all these torchers but you won’t feel sorry for her still…

You feel dominant because you are a male and muscular right? But the fact is you are a coward who hides behind anger and acting out on another weak person who is looking up for you and trusting you that you would protect her. In reality, you are a coward, not a real man…

Ladies, please don’t be silent and please don’t be okay with this, start fighting move out you don’t deserve this you can do better be strong don’t be afraid…
Don’t give a s**t about what others think or talk nobody went through the pain and suffering… Don’t blame yourself for other’s mistakes and inability… Life is short live it happy and wise….

Have a great day…

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Tears…

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It always feel like my heart is exploding with these horrible thoughts which hurt me from inside out but couldn’t let out even a drop of tear where I will be seen as weak in the eyes of others…

Smile a powerful response in all means but I am neither strong nor weak to show my weakness or strength letting out my single drop of tear with a fade smile…

It means nothing to the person who hurts me…

Sad but truth…🤗🤗

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Argument…

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He was making his point blaming everything on me, I snapped at him to stop I don’t even know what to say any more I felt like throwing my phone away or punch at something I lost it completely, With a pause he said I am done arguing can you stop this please can you be normal with me for once… I don’t know what else to say I said okay…

I took a deep breath and said I know I argue with you a lot and I raise my voice but you did not realize how much you hurt my feeling and broke me inside out and act as nothing happened and to have some romantic conversation after five days without any contact and blaming me I am the reason for everything…

Yes, I am the reason for everything I am sorry for trying to spend time with you trying to be with you making you the most important person in my life and expecting much from you…

He kept quiet I know he’s still online I can hear his breath he did not say a word I continued softly I am done with this relationship, I am not blaming you for anything it is your wish to make me feel important or spending time for me, It is your wish and your right It is my mistake that I expected much from you…

I am broken inside I can’t be normal with you anymore I feel numb I felt like I am invisible to the person who means a lot to me it is not your fault it is completely my fault I agree and I am sorry for that I will not argue with you anymore and make you tired…

It ended finally all the feelings I held for him and it ended in an argument…

Have a great day…

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Born with a Curse…

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I am not talking about feminism here but the truth which hurts most of my life… I have one brother out of 4 sisters, yeah I know he gets all the special treats and fun in his life… But what makes no sense is why boys are always getting treated special than the girl child even though she is the only child to the family not only in my country most of the country has the same policy they celebrate the boy child from the day he born to the day he goes to the grave but the girl where she stands in the world? To do chores be a housewife to deliver babies if the baby is a girl then she comes under the same circle…

Yes I know men work hard to keep their family happy and fed everything but even women are working double shift both work and house how we can justify this all because the parents gave the difference from the day they born right… If it is a boy he gets all the freedom but girls?

I respect men, My father is a great man but this community this society need to change… Treat us better equally as human so there will be no need to be cursed from the day we born to the grave…

Have a great day…

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Crumbs of Happiness…

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I like to call it crumbs of happiness because happiness has never been a part of my life, it was like flickering light always, funny but true…

Whenever I happened to be happy about something before enjoying the feeling and absorbing it deep inside I will be struck with something more powerful may be a disappointment or something more than that… But I am used to it, I stopped absorbing and keep my eyes open for the next strike…

You may feel I am crazy how come some one’s life will be this miserable..? Right, I taught so but can’t even explain here… But however what I feel or what strikes me is not important in life right, I am blessed with those crumbs which give the meaning of my life…

When someone asks how you feeling means a lot… When I was unwrapping that small gift box all my feelings and face was glowing up with surprise, those moments are important even though they are for minutes or seconds but it makes our life complete…

Thinking back after 5 years we all remember only the bits of happiest moments in life, not the sad or striking moments it all become funny or we will think great about our-self for being strong and the person who we are right now right…

So friends, don’t give up… Whether it is crumbs or even dots doesn’t matter all that matter was something or someone helping you to stay alive and move on with your life-giving hope to you about everything and make you realize how strong you are…

Even though you are not blessed with showers of happiness some people live out there starving… Be happy cherish the moment keep smiling…

Have a Great Day Ahead…

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Reluctance

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When I was a kid I never played outside with other kids… My parents won’t allow me but my brother gets to play out even during night times… When I decided to go out and play with my friends they’ll question me however I answer their answer will be a big NO… I know it’s wrong to be partial but I hesitated to express it.

When my brother wanted to go out of town and start something new they all supported and they were genuinely happy but when I wanted to go out and study they kept a full stop. No questions should be asked even though asked they were not ready to answer it… I know it’s wrong but I hesitated to ask about it.

When I finish my studies I wanted to work go out explore the world learn to live, to get out of those 4 walls inhale some fresh air… As usual, the answer was no… I get to see how others live their lives and why me even though I am qualified with everything I am not allowed to do anything… I wanted to stand up for myself but I hesitated because I was scared.

They loved me like way too much they cared for me… I know from inside out… I was in love too… I did all I could do to make them feel loved… Feel special made them giving a good name and compliments as much as can but in the end, I am not appreciated instead I was blamed where I am not responsible I wanted to scream out loud and say those words out loud… But I held it… Because I am a loser…

I really don’t know this is how a girl should live or not but I am hesitating to say No… Where all others say directly on my face and don’t feel anything strange about it at all… I do say NO in my dreams… I am a daydreamer…