Category: Positive
10 Secret Self-Care Practices You Need to Know
Living it Up: Solo Weekend Bliss…
There are plenty of enjoyable activities for singles to do over the weekend. Here are some ideas:
- Explore Nature: Take a hike, go for a bike ride, or simply enjoy a leisurely stroll in a nearby park or nature reserve. Being in nature can be refreshing and rejuvenating.
2. Attend a Local Event: Check out local events happening in your area, such as art exhibits, concerts, farmers markets, or community festivals. It’s a great way to meet new people and immerse yourself in your community.
3. Try a New Hobby: Use the weekend to explore a new hobby or activity that interests you, whether it’s painting, cooking, photography, or dancing. You can take a class or simply experiment on your own.
4. Visit Museums or Galleries: Spend some time exploring museums, art galleries, or historical sites in your area. It can be both educational and inspiring.
5. Host a Game Night: Invite friends over for a fun game night filled with board games, card games, or video games. It’s a great way to socialize and have some laughs.
6. Volunteer: Dedicate some time to giving back to your community by volunteering at a local charity or organization. Not only will you be helping others, but you’ll also feel a sense of fulfillment and purpose.
7. Take Yourself on a Date: Treat yourself to a solo date at a nice restaurant, café, or movie theater. Enjoy your own company and indulge in something you love.
8. Exercise: Get active by going for a run, practicing yoga, or hitting the gym. Exercise is not only good for your physical health but also for your mental well-being.
9. Explore Your City: Take a day to be a tourist in your own city. Visit landmarks, try out new restaurants, or simply wander around and discover hidden gems.
10. Relax and Unwind: Sometimes, the best weekend plans involve simply relaxing at home. Treat yourself to a spa day, binge-watch your favorite TV shows, or curl up with a good book.
These tips are applicable not just to girls but also to boys. Remember, the most important thing is to do what makes you happy and fulfilled. Whether you prefer to spend your weekend alone or with friends, there are plenty of options to make the most of your time.
Sky Pictures on my Gallery…
A few days before I saw the Instagram story of sky photos on your mobile, thought I could make a blog about the photos and the story behind it.
MARINA BAY – SINGAPORE
A solo trip first time ever stayed in Singapore for around 15 days, it was a blast exploring completely and had a lot of fun…
UNIVERSAL STUDIO – SENTOSA ISLAND
After having a fun day at Universal Studio, had a long walk on the Sentosa Island beach…
PUDUCHERRY – BEACH
An unplanned night drive leads to Puducherry Beach at the perfect time of sunrise, most stunning view.
UDHAGAMUNDALAM – INDIA
Stunning view of rich mountains and tea estates, with a cool breeze and drizzling drops. My home town … always favourite.
MIDDLE OF NOWHERE – INDIA
Beautiful sky views out in the middle of a road trip.
OOTY – TAMILNADU – INDIA
There are many more I will post on another blog…
Different worlds…?
It has been 2 months since I moved from home and started working, even though I had stayed away from home longer than this. But this is the first time I feel homesick, I lost my glow I feel like I missed my home badly.
I have travelled to many places, and I always blend in smoothly without any hustle. This time it is hard. Adaptation is nowhere near me.
I miss my family
I miss food
I miss people
I miss going around
I miss laughing
I miss smiling
I feel way more lonely now, though I feel like going out and exploring the place I couldn’t I am no longer active nowadays, always feeling sleepy or weak. The awkward truth I haven’t even made one friend in these two months.
I think this may be a different world than mine I am having some adjustment issues, but I am trying to stay positive and blend in as much as I can. But I couldn’t shake off the feeling that I was not being myself.
Sympathy or Empathy…?
Today I have learned about the difference between sympathy and empathy with more technical explanations from how neurons work in our brain to the emotional aspect of humans to other test animals. We all know the difference between both.
After learning it, I kind of figured me an empathic person in more ways but one question kept on popping into my head from morning, will I be able to be this way all my life or will I lose one of the best qualities which makes me kind will vanish as I move on with my life.
It is really fascinating how our brain work all these IQ and EQ differences, feelings, emotions and all the kind of weird things our brain do… But I figured as much as we show kindness or compassion throughout our life at one point it is going to hit the wall, we are going to face someone or something which will shake all our human nature and question ourself some day.
I wish that day would never come and after all, being empathic and feeling about others is not a bad thing or makes us weak actually it makes us strong. After all the only thing which is not gonna cost us anything is to show kindness to others right. Let’s hold on to our kindness and make the world a better place.
That Feel…
You could have said YES
You could have said NO
You could have said SOMETHING
You could have LOVED
You could have SMILED
You could have STAYED
You could have stayed SILENT
You could have done BETTER
You could have STOPPED
You could have MOVED ON
You could have CRIED
You could have SCREAMED
You could have WALKED AWAY
We all have that feeling, which never happened at the right time but regretted later …
Have a great day ahead…
Boys To Girls…
Dear Girls…
Love is more powerful than anything in the world use it wisely…
Not only girls are sensitive boys are also sensitive and emotional don’t hurt them… They are not ATMs don’t use them only for your desires…
Trust them to care for them and love them unconditionally they deserve the same love and care they give you… Treat them equally don’t underestimate your loved ones because they are giving up so much for you it is not because they are inferior to you it is because they love to sacrifice anything for you… If he is ready to fight the world to be with you stand with him don’t be scared… The least you can do for them is be there for him when he is low, understand him, appreciate him be supportive that’s all he expects from you…
If you find a boy who sacrifices anything despite bringing a smile to your face don’t dare to miss him in your life…
Have a great day…
Born with a Curse…
I am not talking about feminism here but the truth which hurts most of my life… I have one brother out of 4 sisters, yeah I know he gets all the special treats and fun in his life… But what makes no sense is why boys are always getting treated special than the girl child even though she is the only child to the family not only in my country most of the country has the same policy they celebrate the boy child from the day he born to the day he goes to the grave but the girl where she stands in the world? To do chores be a housewife to deliver babies if the baby is a girl then she comes under the same circle…
Yes I know men work hard to keep their family happy and fed everything but even women are working double shift both work and house how we can justify this all because the parents gave the difference from the day they born right… If it is a boy he gets all the freedom but girls?
I respect men, My father is a great man but this community this society need to change… Treat us better equally as human so there will be no need to be cursed from the day we born to the grave…
Have a great day…
Super Human Among Us…
It all starts in the morning… As soon as woke up my mom bought me bed tea-sipping slowly I asked ma shall I do all the household chores for you today… You just sit back and relax I will bring food to you all you have to do is list out… I taught it is going to be easy I will do everything in an hour or two and start watching series on Netflix…
I started after eating breakfast (mom cooked already) First thing I rearranged everything and sweep and mop the whole house… Then prepare lunch for everyone and serve them then wash dishes I thought okay work done for now will rest became tired doing this itself… There goes mom reminds me of doing laundry then fold the clothes and put it on each one’s drawer where it belongs okay laundry done and dried clothes meanwhile fold clothes as well finally now I can rest, Seeing the mobile I was shocked time is already around 5 pm papa was asking for tea my little nephew asking milk and biscuits they all wanted some snacks as like I do every day with my mom I was exhausted already mom stepped in and said you are tired go rest I will take care of the rest… But no I said I can do it you just relax I prepared snacks tea served everyone at the house and I had some tea break finally by the I realized time is around 8 pm dinner time make dinner serve to everyone clean the kitchen was the dishes time is around 11 pm now I am not able to move a muscle I did not get any time for taking bath also I was tired exhausted too… Finally, before going to bed I asked my mom why don’t we hire a maid to house how come you do everything daily all this works you will be very tired barely I touched my mobile throughout the day I didn’t any time to myself as well I just feel like need to sleep right now… In spite of doing everything, they criticize food taste and everything how come you are being okay with all these…
Mom smiled and answered we don’t need a maid its just routine work I do every day and I am used to it I don’t find any difficulty doing it and truly I am happy doing it for my family and I am really glad you did all the works for me and gave me perfect rest and I am proud of you… And you must be very tired go sleep…
I never realized there are so many works at home we never aware of we all think being and staying at home is the easiest job of all and they are just taking good rest ut it is not true they suffer they are exhausted but even though they put on a smile and make us feel special…
Only superhumans are capable of doing that, they live among us and we are too busy to notice that… In my previous blog, I have mentioned how our moms are sacrificing everything for our life and what we can do for them and how I am going to try something to help my mom… I will try doing at least half of her works every day…
Love you ma and thanks for everything…
Have a great day…
Life Messes or People Messes 